Email This Post HomeHumorSeize the Day Blog Interview Amy Vansant August 6, 2012 Humor 10 Comments I’ve been passionate about trying to stay interesting so I don’t devolve into some strange old woman with 57 adopted dogs and a deathly fear of walking out to retrieve the mail. Lately. For maybe another month or two based on previous passions. Gosh, I love doggies. 57 dogs, wheee! I stumbled upon a blog with a “get out there and do it!” theme: Seize the Day! by Kirstie, who also had a shocking reason FOR getting out there and doing interesting things – the death of a friend. So, to inspire even more people to get out there and (cue cool echo effect:) Be More Interesting, I thought I’d interview Kirstie, who also offers some good insights on blogging in general. Ryan and Kirstie – Cherish every moment! What made you want to learn a new skill every month? I was inspired by the life of my friend, Ryan. Ryan was one of the coolest, most interesting people I’ve ever known. Last summer, there was a group of us floating down the river in tubes. Ryan jumped in to cool off and never resurfaced. At his funeral, there were so many pictures and videos of all of Ryan’s experiences – surfing, ice fishing, unicycling, quading, scuba diving, skateboarding – this guy tried it all! The minister encouraged us to take Ryan’s life and use it to inspire our own. At that moment, I decided to create a blog where I would document myself trying a new skill every month. I decided to go total cliche and call it “seize the day.” How many new skills did you learn and what were they? Sept: learned how to longboard – and landed a trick with our local TV station present (news was slooooow that day) 🙂 I loved it and as soon as my knee heals, I will be out on my longboard again. It was also one of my favourites because I met a new friend – my long boarding instructor, Randy. He’s a super cool guy who reminds me a lot of Ryan (He says things like, “Rad!”) It was my first month after Ryan’s death and those hours riding on the path with Randy were therapeutic. I was struggling with the memories of that day on the river and longboarding was the perfect distraction, yet made me feel closer to Ryan. Oct: learned how to play Pearl Jam on the flute – my elementary school band teacher said that it couldn’t be done. He was right. Nov: Learned Spanish. Fantastico! Dec: Grandma taught me how to crochet. I made a blanket for my best friend’s baby (definitely the MOST challenging – I’m all thumbs!) Jan: Learned how to dogsled – so Canadian! Feb: “Face my fears” month: scuba dived with sharks, played goalie for the local hockey team, and taught a CrossFit kids class (I’m terrified of large groups of small children) March: Took wake surfing lessons with the world wake surfing champion, Drew Danielo, in Florida April: Car maintenance month – total bust. My car is still a disaster May: Became a domestic goddess with the help of my Ukrainian Baba – learned how to make ukrainian meals, clean my house, and keep my hubby happy 🙂 June: grow knee cartilage whilst pinteresting (post knee surgery) July: Learning how to meditate month – cleansing my chakras or something like that Wait, did you really learn spanish in a month? Because if you did I think I’m going to kill myself. I’ve been trying for like 20 years. Ha! No, I’m certainly not fluent in Spanish; however, I am able to awkwardly string together short phrases to say something completely functional like, “The sink is in the bathroom.” What did you plan that you haven’t done yet? I wanted to learn how to ride a unicycle because Ryan loved his unicycle (who the h rides a unicycle???) He used to ride it around our neighbourhood in a red speedo, cracking up the neighbourhood. I also wanted to learn how to sail; unfortunately, I had knee surgery and won’t be mobile for another few months. You adventures were a bit stalled by an injury what happened to your knee? I wish I had an incredibly riveting story (my chute didn’t open during a skydive!) I don’t. There wasn’t a specific event that caused my injury. The surgeon thought I had a torn meniscus, which is a quick fix, but when they scoped my knee, they found that all my hard cartilage was torn (my crap cartilage couldn’t keep up with my active lifestyle). They performed micro fracture surgery in which they break the bone in 3 places to promote new cartilage growth. I was awake (and stoned) for the entire procedure and even asked my orthopaedic surgeon to give me a pedicure during my surgery (I thought I was hilarious!) Recovery involves 8 weeks of non-weightbearing followed by months of physiotherapy. It’s definitely taken the wind out of my sails (literally, I was supposed to learn how to sail this month!) And my crutches are complete and total assholes. Why did you use “h” for hell but then go ahead and spell out “assholes?” I had no idea that I did that. I think sometimes I picture different people reading my blog (like my grandma) and in that moment I make an executive decision to censor the swearing a bit. (is “hell” even a swear?) Also, it just occurred to me that I write just the way I speak – I always say “H” like, “What the H is that?” but I call people “assholes” all the time. Was it all worth it? You bet! What a life changing year! Ryan would have thought it was awesome. I’m pretty sure he’s cheering me on from his unicycle! I’ve met some great new friends, spent time learning from the people I care about most, and have had a blast doing it. I’ve also really enjoyed writing and sharing my writing with others. I think I’m pretty funny and it’s so reinforcing to hear that others are laughing, learning, and identifying with my experiences. Do you feel more interesting? Yup! I have always been fascinated by the human brain. I work with brain injured patients and am always blown away by how “plastic” the brain is. We are capable of producing new pathways in our brain. Why would we not take advantage of that? When we continually do the same things day in and day out, the brain doesn’t change – it’s comprised of the same old boring neural pathways. Who wants a lame brain? Learn new things – create new neural pathways. How could that not make you more interesting? Now that I’m well into my 30’s, I hear so many people my age complain, “I’m too old to try that.” Bullshit. This is it. This is your life. Make it happen. Do it now. Wow, I sound like one of those kooky motivational speakers. But someday, I will look back on this year and exclaim, “I did that!” I’m pretty proud of what I accomplished…and in memory of a friend I will never forget. Visit Kirstie’s Blog for more stories and inspiration! Author Recent Posts Amy VansantAmy Vansant is a USA Today and Wall Street Journal Best-Selling author specializing in fun, funny fiction --- even the murder mysteries. Latest posts by Amy Vansant (see all) Too Many Book Deals, Steals, Kindle Giveaways… - May 27, 2020 Name the Hurricane Winners, Win a Kindle + Books - May 19, 2020 Name the Hurricane, Women Sleuths 99c Sale & Giveaway - May 14, 2020 10 Responses iampisspot August 6, 2012 Loved this interview, and will be a’headin over to Kirstie’s blog after typing this. I too, have been challenging myself to all sorts this year. It feels good to actually be LIVING as opposed to just EXISTING. Kirstie’s enthusiasm for life is inspiring! 0 likes Reply Amy Vansant August 6, 2012 Thanks! When I read how she started her journey I was so moved I couldn’t help myself. Really stuck with me. 0 likes Reply Abby August 6, 2012 Great post, Amy. And thank you for sharing your story, Kirstie. Sometimes it stinks that it can take an unfortunate event to wake us up, but it’s also through sharing these stories that we realize it DOESN’T have to take an unfortunate event to wake us up (if that makes sense. Probably not.) Anyway, great post 😉 0 likes Reply Amy Vansant August 6, 2012 Exactly – though a horrible event, wonderful she thought to inspire herself and others going forward! 0 likes Reply Shannon August 6, 2012 Fantastic interivew! Love this post. 0 likes Reply Amy Vansant August 6, 2012 Thanks! Hey we went to Richmond once… and went to a cool bar where we were asked to join an underground swingers club. I’ll stop by your blog to see if that comes standard with Richmond dining… 🙂 0 likes Reply Christian at Point Counter-Point Point Point August 7, 2012 Cool post. It’s very inspiring. I agree. Your brain is a muscle and you need to exercise it. And of course you then need to force it to rest by flooding it with alcohol. 0 likes Reply Amy Vansant August 8, 2012 I have a very similar philosophy… 0 likes Reply Lance August 8, 2012 Everything write and right about the internet in your post and hers. I just made one goal – writing a book. After spetember, I’ll just sit around and do nothing until 2013. good post 0 likes Reply Amy Vansant August 8, 2012 Oh that sounds lovely… but I hope you won’t! 0 likes Reply Leave a Reply to Christian at Point Counter-Point Point Point Cancel ReplyYour email address will not be published.CommentName* Email* Website Add me to Amy Vansant's Humor Newsletter!